How to Look Handsome Every Day and in Every Way


How to Look Handsome Every Day and in Every Way
Special occasions bring out the best in the way you look. No doubt you paid attention to how you looked on your wedding day. If you are unmarried, you can certainly relate to how much you fret about your looks on a first date, but have you wondered how to look handsome every day?

Although this seems to happen only in movies, you can look awesome consistently in real life each day. All you need is a little bit of planning and awareness, so let’s talk about the ways in which you can look your best every day.

1. Learn to Trust and Rely on Yourself

confidenceThe first thing we cover in our exhaustive article on how to look handsome is confidence. The degree to which you trust your ability to produce a desired outcome is the degree to which you are confident about yourself. A serious impediment that stands in the way of confidence is ignorance.

You must know what you are good at and what you are not good at. You must not assume these things. Instead, you must validate your conclusions through experience. For example, you might think you don’t look good in a certain color, but are you sure that others agree with your assessment? Maybe the color flatters you or maybe it doesn’t. It’s important that you validate your assumption.

Once you have a validated inventory of things you are good at, you can look for opportunities to showcase your strength. And, if you desire, you can work on things at which you are not skilled. This way, your list of abilities grow and so does your confidence. As a result, your appeal sky rockets.

2. Straighten Your Posture: How to Prop Your Spine Properly

When people think about how to look handsome and attractive, they mostly think about the face. Instead, you must think of handsomeness as your body’s attribute, not just your face. The easiest way to look more attractive to the opposite sex is to straighten your posture.

postureTo straighten your posture, you must bring your spine to neutral alignment. This means that your spine neither arches forwards nor curves backwards. Making your spine neutral is easy following these steps:

  • Stand up and spread your arms as if you are making the letter “T” with your body.
  • Make sure your arms are at your shoulder level and stretch the arms out as much as you can.
  • Now slowly raise your arms and bring them together over your head.
  • Hold this position and stand on the balls of your feet to raise yourself a couple of inches.
  • Finally, relax back into the standing position.

After doing this routine a couple of times, you will develop a feel for your neutral spine. The exercise also strengthens the muscles and tendons that help keep your spine straight. With regular practice, this will become your default position.

3. Smile to Let Your Personality Shine Through

Smile is a facial expression that conveys pleasure, amusement or joy. In other words, a smile projects a general sense of wellbeing that draws others towards you. Even people who are not blessed with classic good looks can look incredibly attractive by wearing a warm smile.

Strangely, people aren’t comfortable smiling. Some think they look awkward when they smile; while others may think it’s inappropriate. If you have any inhibitions against smiling, try this exercise.

smileRecord yourself while you’re watching your favorite comedy show. Let the camera run while you allow yourself to thoroughly bask in the humor of the hilarious characters on screen. After you record yourself for an hour or so, stop recording. Then, fast forward to a point in the middle of the recording and see how your smile looks. We guarantee you, you’ll be thrilled to see how much smiling helps with looking handsome.

4. An Easy Tip: Enamor Others with Eye Contact

Eyes offer a way to connect with others intimately. You can instantly add to your charm and charisma by cultivating this skill. Yes, this is a skill that you can learn and become better at with practice. In the beginning, you may be uncomfortable looking people in the eye. To get over this hesitation, you can use this simple method.

direct eye contactStart by creating a journal. In the journal, you must record the eye color of three people each day. They must be people you know or total strangers. Do this for a week. Then, expand your observation to include the eye colors of five people per day. Keep increasing the count per day by three each week. Do this until you are comfortable looking people in the eye. Once you get used to this, making eye contact becomes easy.

If you feel the other person finds direct eye contact intimidating, you can soften your gaze by focusing on the forehead. After the person becomes comfortable with that, you can look directly in the eye. Remember, to aim for an attentive gaze and not a penetrating one.

5. How to Refine Your Style

You are unique. You have traits, attributes, mannerisms and even quirks that set you apart from others. Style is a collective term for all these attributes. Carefully refining your style, therefore, is a reliable way to create a lasting impression. When you try to emulate others, people may perceive you as someone who is trying too hard. At worst, they may think you are phony.

To avoid this, pay attention to the way you talk, words you use while talking, speed at which you talk, emphasis you put on certain syllables, tone of your voice, and modulation. Then, observe the way you move and the way you don’t move. These observations give you opportunities to identify aspects that you can refine.

Your StyleIn other words, you are like a sculptor chipping away the rough edges to reveal the polished statue beneath. Awareness is essential to successfully carry out this process. While you’re doing so, don’t rush. Enjoy the process and take joy in watching your own evolution.

6. Wear Your Hair Appropriately

If you’ve had a bad haircut, you know that your hair is an integral part of your appearance. The way you wear your hair depends on the places where you spend most of your time. For instance, while long hair might suit the relaxed culture in companies like Google, employees in conservative law firms may frown at that hair style.

No matter how you wear your hair, there are some basic tenets you should follow. Firstly, your hair should be neatly organized. So, watch out for those stray strands. Next, your hair must be clean. Lastly, your hair must be consistent with your style and personality.

For example, don’t grow your hair because you want to project a rock star look. If the rock star hairstyle isn’t consistent with the way you conduct yourself, then the hair does more damage than good. It’s fine to get a regular haircut and stick to it unless you feel your personality demands another look.

7. Pamper Your Skin to Bring Out the Glow

Wash your faceYour facial skin is the most exposed part of your skin, so let us discuss how to look handsome face wise. The first step is through cleansing. Wash your face with a mild cleanser immediately after you wake up and before you go to sleep. After removing superficial impurities on your skin, you can use an exfoliator to remove layers of dead skin that have piled on your skin. Don’t exfoliate too frequently; once a week is enough.

If you have large pores, you can use a toner to reduce the size of the pores. Next, pat dry your face with a clean towel and apply a layer of moisturizing cream on your face. Lastly, before you step out, put a sunscreen on face.

Though this seems like overkill, it is not. It’s the proper way to care for your facial skin. In the long run, this will become a habit and will come to you naturally. Also remember to moisturize your skin as and when you notice signs of dryness. This makes your skin look fresh, youthful, and lively.

8. Maintain Clean Fingernails

Now, it’s time to get to the details. Men generally don’t pay attention to their fingernails. Going the extra mile to look after your nails gives you an advantage over the men who don’t.

Make sure your nails are clean and well cut. If you are in the habit of biting your nails, try your best to quit the habit. Remember, next to your face, your hands are the most exposed part of your body. Clean and healthy nails conveys an image of self-love and confidence. Sweat the details. You will be glad that you did.

9. Hit the Shower Every Day

showerAlthough this sounds like a no-brainer, you’ll be surprised by how many people don’t do this. If you divide your day into two halves, namely work and not-work, then it is important that you shower at the start of each half. For example, a shower before you go to office and a shower after you return from office.

Showering cleans your body, removes odors, and refreshes your body. Plus, shower is a great time to plan your day or reflect on it. The showers don’t have to be long. Since you are showering twice every day, you won’t have too much dirt to remove in the first place. Not only that, long showers are bad for your skin.

Body odor is a big turn off. What’s worst, people will avoid you without telling you that your body odor is bothering them. To sidestep this pitfall, shower regularly. Also, use a clean towel to dry yourself. Using an unclean towel leaves residual odor on your body. This is highly undesirable.

10. Get Your Quota of Sleep

Did you know that you consciously use only 10 percent of your brain power? This means that you use 90 percent of your brain power sub-consciously. Your body restores and repairs itself using sub-conscious processes. It does this while you are asleep.

If you don’t give your body enough downtime, it cannot carry out its restorative functions. As a result, the wear and tear accumulates until the damage escalates into a disease and forces you to take rest, so make sure you get between six to eight hours of sleep each day.

sleepingDevelop a habit of waking up at the same time every morning and sleeping at the same time every night. Have your meals two hours before your bed time and avoid using electronic devices an hour before sleeping. IF you can meditate for 15 to 30 minutes before you sleep, the quality of your sleep will improve drastically.

11. Embrace Exercise and the Benefits It Brings

Exercise improves your physical appearance. In addition to that, your blood circulation improves. As a result, each cell in your body receives adequate nutrition. Also, the waste products resulting from metabolic activities get evacuated from the cells. Consequently, your internal environment becomes clean. This cleanliness outwardly shows itself as a healthy glow.

With exercise, your body becomes efficient with its energy use. When you begin exercising, your energy level will soar. So, you won’t look down and beat at the end of the day. Lastly, exercise strengthens your body, makes it more flexible, and increases its durability. Your movements become more graceful and your posture improves.

When all these benefits come together, the final effect is much greater than the sum of the parts. So, begin an exercise regime to strengthen and tone your body. You’ll love exercise once you see how awesome you look in photos. Sometimes, you may look better than you did in high school.

12. Polish Your Pearly Whites

your teethWhen you think about how to look hot, working on your teeth may not occur to you immediately. Usually, the word “hot” triggers an image of a person with a sexy physique. Nevertheless, you can’t ignore your teeth. The reason is, an attractive body might help you catch someone’s attention. But, in order to keep it, you need to work on your teeth.

Teeth marred by coffee stains or cigarette stains immediately pushes people away. The good news is that this problem isn’t hard to fix. A visit to the dentist can fix the problem within half an hour. The process is mostly painless and doesn’t cost much. The boost in confidence is well worth the price.

Maintain your oral hygiene because bad breath is unattractive. Simple habits, such as flossing and brushing your teeth, will help you avoid most dental problems. So, if you invest just a little time each day, you will reap rich rewards for your persistence.

13. Plan Your Wardrobe and Accessories

If you examine your wardrobe, you will notice that your clothes, and accessories just seemed to hitch a ride on your closet. You let them in without much thought or discrimination. To put an end to this, you must plan your wardrobe.

When you buy clothes, buy them in sets. For example, don’t buy just a pair of trousers. Instead, buy a pair of trousers with two shirts to go with it. When you make a new purchase, remove something old from your wardrobe.

clothingFilling a wardrobe is a lot like assembling a jigsaw puzzle. You need different types of clothing to suit different occasions. For each occasion, you must have clothes that fit the situation. This is where planning becomes useful. Planning makes your wardrobe complete and eliminates redundancy. Extend your scrutiny to accessories, such as wallets, belts, shoes, and glasses too.

14. Frame Experiences into Compelling Stories

Boyish good looks probably won people praises during their school and middle school days; however, as adults, your attractiveness alone isn’t enough. You must be able to capture the attention of other people and retain it. One of the best ways to do this is by telling stories.

listeningInclude a list of stories that you’d like to tell about yourself to others. Keep adding new experiences to the list. When you meet new people, you can tell them where you come from and what interests you in an interesting narrative. But this doesn’t work on people whom you already know. That’s why it’s important to add stories to your collection.
After you’ve established the initial connection, you can switch to listening mode. It’s important that you make this transition from speaking to listening. The world has more speakers than listeners. In fact, the proportion is heavily skewed against listeners. When people find an attentive listener, they just gravitate towards you.

15. Observe Others But Set Your Own Standards

You learn more by observing others and yourself than from any book. Keep your eyes peeled for examples of people, things or situations that represent the next step in your own journey. While doing this, you’re not trying to copy someone. Instead, you draw inspiration from them as an artist would.

Based on the inspiration, you can create standards that you’d like to achieve. Then, through focused efforts, you can realize the standards you set for yourself. No one else can do this for you and no one else should do this for you.

The Final Step for How to Look Handsome

The last step is the simplest step of all. Without it, everything else falls out of place. It’s not enough to know how to look handsome, you must put your knowledge into action. So, pick one of the 15 points here and get to work. Pick the easiest one first. Then work your way to the harder ones.

bring out your inner hotnessThe only thing is, try to not pick more than one habit at a time. Don’t rush the process. You will see some results in a few months’ time. If you continue for a year, and then look back, you will be surprised by what you achieved. Get ready, because it’s time to bring out your inner hotness.


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